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There is a saying in the martial arts, “The moment you stop trying to be better, you stop being good.”
Like all sweeping generalisations on this blog, this also applies to life. The moment a villan or the hero starts to think, “o have discover the ultimate technique” you know they’re about to get a good kicking. Like all sweeping generalisations on this blog, this also applies to life. If you think you know it all, you’re no longer receptive to any feedback that tells you how you could have done it better.
That one thing is a huge obstacle to any further progress. No performance is totally perfect, there is always room to improve, but to improve you must always keep your mind open to how to improve.
Its a mindset, head fake thing. Concentrating on honing your skills makes you use mistakes as feedback rather than failure, another really important factor in mastery.
There are a lot of other goodies () you get from a “get better” mentality as this 99percent article on Getting Better vs Being Good:
- The freedom to open to new opportunities
- The ability to get more ideas out of your head and into action
- The courage to ask for help
Celebrate incremental progress, it all adds up in the end.
